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How To Communicate With Challenging People
The Key To Understanding the Inner Mindset of Challenging & Controlling People To Create a Win-Win !
Taught to Thousands of Students Over 15 Years
WHY THIS COURSE?
Are You Having These Challenges?
Q: Do you find yourself having the same emotionally challenging people drain your energy , but do not know how to stop them?
Q: Do you find yourself feeling emotionally overwhelmed or thinking about conversations for hours or days after?
Q: Do you ever feel anxiety thinking about going to work or talking to certain friends or your partner?
No matter how polite or thoughtful of other people we aim to be, sooner or later we will meet a challenging person. The way these people gain power over others is by using covert emotional manipulations designed to trigger emotional discomfort in their target. However, they do not just pick their targets randomly, there is much more going on behind the scenes than meets the eye...as you will see in this course!
HERE IS WHAT THE COURSE INCLUDES
All About You
Create a powerful foundation and self confidence in this module by gaining true clarity of the situation. Here you will also create specific outcomes to empower your focus!
- Gain clarity on the full situation.
- Become present tense with your emotions.
- Create clear and specific outcomes.
- Discover underlying anxieties that trigger you.
- Learn the areas that hold 90% of people back.
The 4 Control Dramas
A control drama is designed to overpower another persons emotional insecurity. In this module you will discover the four main ones which are hiding in the shadows.
- Discover what makes a person attack another.
- Learn how attackers are not as powerful as they appear.
- Gain a full awareness of the 4 main control dramas.
- What each control requires in their target.
- How recognise it when control dramas are mixed.
Are You Attracting Them?
Although it can appear that other people mindlessly attack, there is always a method in their projection. In this module we will observe any magnets you may be carrying.
- To take a details look at who is in your life.
- How to asses each person and their energy.
- Check which drama triggers you the most.
- How to recognise your triggers before they do.
- Essential strategies to drop the magnet.
Strategically Protect Yourself
It is essential to protect your energy and mindset if you are going to have effective communication. Knowing 'how to talk' can be ineffective if you trigger under pressure.
- Understanding the Islands 1 & 2 mindset.
- Why making errors is not always a bad thing.
- A full range of practical energy saving techniques.
- How to turn your anxiety into strength.
- How you can grow from being attacked.
Communication With The 4 Styles
With the foundations in place we now cover a very comprehensive structure of how to communicate and create a win-win with each of the four control dramas in the moment.
- How to keep your focus in the moment.
- How to recognise the control dramas 'off switch'.
- A step by step guide to each of the four dramas.
- Knowing when and how to keep going or move away.
- A full practical guide to communication styles.
Free Course Sections
Watch this video for an example selection from each module
Each module will feed the next module to create a progressive unfolding of your creative awareness with regard to communication.
WHAT OUR STUDENTS SAY
Paul walks his talk! In his past Paul hit the rock bottom of depression from being physically and emotionally bullied at school and home. Struggling with direction from low self esteem and anxiety, he went from job to job waking up with a dread of the day. Even though he had studied many personal development books on goals setting and achievement, very few actually made an impact leading to yet more frustration.
From this he threw himself into a five years complete immersion study of the most successful people he could learn about from every walk of life, putting together a plan which he used on himself to completely turn his life around! The course you can now gain instant access to is the exact plan Paul used that has been adapted and refined over 15 years and professionally taught to thousands of student from all over the world.
WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR?
Message from Paul Ryder...
It is so important to learn effective communication with challenging people or life can become very difficult and energy draining.
My aim through this course is to guide and support you through the steps I went through to come to terms with the multitude of abusive people I met in my own past
It is not your past that defines you...it is your attitude towards your future. To get results from this course you have to be committed and I have suggested in the past to a handful of people not to purchase the course as they have said they are not going to give it all they have, I'm not being rude...I'm be respectful as I do not want to waste anybody's time or money if they are not going to get results and change their life!
Only buy this course if your going to commit to it!
SO...WHAT DOES IT COST?
Full Online Course
Complete course (6 modules)
24/7 lifetime access
Live & Recorded Webinars
If You Change Nothing...Nothing Changes!
Have a question? Take a look at our most common questions.
Q #1 - How much time will it take?
A: The more time you invest in practice the quicker and more efficient you will become at achieving your goals.
However the recommended time spent is 20 -45 minutes per day.
You can spend longer if you choose, but be cautions of doing too much as pushing too hard can sometime hamper results.
The time to completion is going to be different for different people as they will be at different stages. Though, on average there is 90 minutes of video content per module plus the time to complete the workbook and questions.
Q #2 - What type of content is it
We have made the content as easy to digest as possible in the following formats...
1. Each module section will have a training video
2. Each module section training video has a downloadable audio only version for ease of use on iPod's / MP3 players
3. There are PDF printable questions to each module to
4. There is an ongoing manual through the entire course that you build as you progress
Q #3 - What if I get stuck?
This course has been specifically designed to cover all areas that may arise. Each module feeds the next and all are inter-related. Any questions that arise will very often be answered in up coming modules OR you will discover them as you do the exercises within the modules.
It is important (for your growth) to be patient with any frustrations or stumbling block you may face and set the intention of finding a way. This will force your mind to become creative and adapt to challenges which will strengthen your will power and determination.
Note From Paul:
It is important to note though, that sometimes there may be anxieties and fears that may arise that need more specialist consideration, such as past trauma or abuse. If this does happen or triggers distress whilst going through the course. Please get in touch and I can suggest further options. Either one to one coaching or some other forms of support that will be suitable for your specific needs.
Q #4 - How will I know if it is working?
Goal setting is much more than writing things down and being all hype and positive thinking!
This course is specifically designed to dig deep into your emotion and find what really makes you buzz! There is also a great deal of focus on what holds you back. With these two areas in play your mind will automatically want to move forward. So you will know if it is working if you find yourself wanting to achieve rather than feeling its a chore.
However that said, it is vital that you complete the course and put in 110% effort to all of the exercises. Your results will be a reflection of your efforts!
Are you ready to commit?
Complete course (6 modules)
24/7 lifetime access
Live & Recorded Webinars
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